Stephan Gonzales

I’ve never signed up for one of these sites before so I’m not really sure what to expet.  I’m not looking for anything in particular, just a connection I guess.  I’m not sure what a romantic relationship would look like in this situation but I could be open to it.  I’d also be happy just to meet somebody interesting to share a conversation with.

I want to make it known up front that I was convicted of sexual assault.  I also have 23 years left on a 30 year sentence.  I’m not afraid of my past.  I’m open and honest about it and I’m willing to tell you all about it if you want to know.  That man died a long time ago.  People are allowed to change, and people are more than the worst thing they’ve ever done.  

I practice Siddha Yoga Meditation, to which I credit most of the growth I’ve experienced these last 8 years.  When it comes to spirituality, God, metaphysics, and the nature of consciousness and the universe I approach it from a place of utmost humility.  I am a seeker of truth and my heart and my mind are wide open.

I am very intelligent and I like to learn.  I’m interested in politics, theology, cosmology, physics and metaphysics among other things.  I’m particularly interested in the big questions; God, the nature of reality, death and what lies beyond it.  I like things that make you think, things that raise more questions than they answer.

I am also extremely interested in the question of non-human intelligence.  I don’t claim to have the answers but I’ve learned enough to know beyond any doubt that there are things going on that can’t be explained within the currently accepted framework.

I like a lot of different music but 90% of my playlist is on the rock end of the spectrum.  I listen to everything from Slipknot, Evanescence and All that Remains to Nero, Lindsey Stirling and Eminem.

I like to play chess and handball.  At the former I’m no master but I like to think I’m pretty good.  At the latter I’m the best there ever was or will be.  I also like to run and never miss a chance to go outside.

I am pansexual but am not nor have I ever been sexually active in prison.  I’ve only ever dated women but I don’t rule anything out.

When it comes to relationships I value honesty over everything.  I am a very honest person.  I’m not perfect but one thing you can count on is that you can trust me never to lie to you.  That being said you should make sure before you ask me a question that you really want the answer.

My main love language is touch so yeah that sucks in this situation.  Affection is also very important to me.  If nobody has ever called you clingy you’re probably not what I’m looking for.

I am a very sexual person in the free world and I don’t apologize for that.  That fact actually had little to do with how I ended up in here.

Monogamy is not important to me but if it is to you then I’m all for it.  As long as you are meeting my needs I don’t need anyone else.  Otherwise that’s where the honesty thing comes in.  

It’s hard to really describe yourself in 600 words but it’s a start I guess.  A lot of this stuff is pretty superficial.  If you really want to know me you’ll have to write me and put the time in.